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Our top choices for Big Sur LGBT-friendly hotels

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Big Sur Lodge

Big Sur Lodge

Big Sur Lodge
3.0 star property
Big Sur
8.4 out of 10, Very good, (1000)
"Excellent location, close to trails, great pool, fireplace and dining on site. "
United States
Ed
The price is Rp2.532.421
Rp2.888.795 total
includes taxes & fees
7 Jan - 8 Jan 2026
Big Sur Lodge
Body treatments, aromatherapy, hot stone massages, deep-tissue massages
Alila Ventana Big Sur - Inclusive Resort

Alila Ventana Big Sur - Inclusive Resort

Alila Ventana Big Sur - Inclusive Resort
4.5 star property
Posts
9.0 out of 10, Wonderful, (338)
"Alway a beautiful place to stay at. The staff is exceptional in all areas. "
United States
Michael
The price is Rp26.860.800
Rp31.628.928 total
includes taxes & fees
14 Jan - 15 Jan 2026
Alila Ventana Big Sur - Inclusive Resort
Front of property
Victorian Inn

Victorian Inn

Victorian Inn
3.0 star property
New Monterey
9.4 out of 10, Exceptional, (1522)
"Excellent hotel within walking distance of the aquarium and restaurants which was a plus!"
United States
Corey
Victorian Inn
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InterContinental the Clement Monterey by IHG

InterContinental the Clement Monterey by IHG

InterContinental the Clement Monterey by IHG
4.5 star property
New Monterey
9.4 out of 10, Exceptional, (1067)
"Perfect place to stay and location is a plus right by the water "
United States
Gabriela
The price is Rp3.555.452
Rp4.131.459 total
includes taxes & fees
7 Jan - 8 Jan 2026
InterContinental the Clement Monterey by IHG
Lobby
Portola Hotel & Spa at Monterey Bay

Portola Hotel & Spa at Monterey Bay

Portola Hotel & Spa at Monterey Bay
4.0 star property
Downtown Monterey
9.0 out of 10, Wonderful, (2856)
"Great hotel, location, facilities and staff."
United States
Deepa
The price is Rp3.379.692
Rp4.017.634 total
includes taxes & fees
7 Jan - 8 Jan 2026
Portola Hotel & Spa at Monterey Bay
Private kitchen
Squibb Houses

Squibb Houses

Squibb Houses
3.5 star property
Cambria
9.6 out of 10, Exceptional, (279)
"Breakfast & accomodations were fabulous."
United States
Kanela
The price is Rp1.532.744
Rp1.983.166 total
includes taxes & fees
5 Jan - 6 Jan 2026
Squibb Houses
Property grounds
Carmel Wayfarer Inn

Carmel Wayfarer Inn

Carmel Wayfarer Inn
3.0 star property
Northwest Carmel
8.2 out of 10, Very good, (1000)
"Parking was pretty easy. The area was nice and safe and you could walk to restaurants and shopping. I really enjoyed my stay with my girlfriends."
United States
Cristina
Carmel Wayfarer Inn
Lobby
Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel

Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel

Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel
4.0 star property
Monterey
8.4 out of 10, Very good, (432)
"Recommend staying at this property visiting the area. on the beach, very good location"
Canada
Cristina Iuliana
The price is Rp2.817.528
Rp3.778.768 total
includes taxes & fees
7 Jan - 8 Jan 2026
Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel
Free buffet breakfast
Holiday Inn Express at Monterey Bay by IHG

Holiday Inn Express at Monterey Bay by IHG

Holiday Inn Express at Monterey Bay by IHG
2.5 star property
Seaside
7.6 out of 10, Good, (1196)
"Room very clean and comfortable, I loved the hot chocolate during night time "
United States
Miguel
The price is Rp1.796.316
Rp2.043.917 total
includes taxes & fees
8 Jan - 9 Jan 2026
Holiday Inn Express at Monterey Bay by IHG
Building design
Embassy Suites by Hilton Monterey Bay Seaside

Embassy Suites by Hilton Monterey Bay Seaside

Embassy Suites by Hilton Monterey Bay Seaside
3.5 star property
Seaside
8.8 out of 10, Excellent, (1395)
"Very nice breakfast, convenient location and great staff"
United States
shinil
The price is Rp2.736.692
Rp3.493.061 total
includes taxes & fees
7 Jan - 8 Jan 2026
Embassy Suites by Hilton Monterey Bay Seaside
Lowest nightly price found within the past 24 hours based on a 1 night stay for 2 adults. Prices and availability subject to change. Additional terms may apply.
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Frequently asked questions

How do I find an LGBTQ-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
Consider this your open invitation to pack your bags and find gay-friendly hotels in Big Sur on our website. Visitors are sure to enjoy all Big Sur has to offer including its seaside.
What is the top LGBTQ-friendly place to stay in Big Sur?
Big Sur Lodge is a top LGBTQ-friendly hotel, and features free parking and in-room coffee makers. Alila Ventana Big Sur - Inclusive Resort is another good option for your holiday.
How many LGBTQ-friendly accommodation options will I find in Big Sur?
There are currently 2 LGBTQ-friendly lodging options in Big Sur.
What should I do while I'm visiting Big Sur?
During your trip, get out and enjoy everything Big Sur has to offer. You and your travelling companions may want to visit Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park, Pfeiffer Beach and Andrew Molera State Park. While you're here, create some great memories of your trip with stops at Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park, McWay Falls and Sand Dollar Beach.
What is a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
LGBTQ-friendly hotels, also known as gay-friendly hotels, welcome all travellers who identify as LGBTQIA+. We have worked with the International Gay and Lesbian Travel Association (IGLTA) to compile a selection of gay-friendly hotels worldwide. In Big Sur, hotels affiliated with IGLTA prioritise a diverse environment in which guests are welcomed, respected and not obliged to declare or hide their sexual orientation.
What can I expect from a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
Stay at a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur and get a warm welcome from a community you belong to. Many of our LGBTQ-friendly accommodation options offer concierge services that provide information about nearby LGBTQ restaurants and local events.